Date Night Wheel
Neither of you wants to choose, and both of you will have an opinion once it is chosen. Let the wheel go first.
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Editing the entries only changes your copy. Press Save in the Saved wheels panel to keep it, or reset to start again.
Keyboard shortcuts
- Space Spin the wheel
- R Spin again
- F Full screen
- S Open settings
- Esc Close a dialog or leave full screen
While you are typing in a box, these keys belong to the box — only Escape stays global.
How to use this template
- Spin as it is, or replace the list with ideas that exist where you live.
- Delete anything that is only true in summer, or keep two saved wheels — one for each half of the year.
- Use weights if one of you is quietly campaigning: a heavier slice is visible to both of you, which is the point.
- Agree in advance that the spin is binding. That is what makes it work.
- Save the wheel so it is ready the next time the conversation starts.
What people use it for
- The recurring “I don’t mind, you choose” standoff.
- Anniversary plans when both of you have run out of ideas.
- A month of dates, drawn one at a time with the winner removed.
- Double dates, where four people is two too many to reach agreement.
- A cheap-only wheel for weeks when the budget has views of its own.
Frequently asked questions
What if we do not like what it lands on?
That reaction is useful information — it usually means one of you already knew what you wanted. The wheel is quickest at surfacing a preference nobody was willing to state.
Can I make one option more likely?
Yes, with weights, and the slice grows to match so it is not a secret. If you want it hidden, you want a different tool and probably a different conversation.
Can we share the wheel between two phones?
Yes. “Share” builds a link that carries the entries in the address itself, so opening it on another phone rebuilds the same wheel without an account or an upload.
Is there a version for deciding where to eat?
The what to eat wheel is exactly that, and the restaurant picker handles the case where you have a long list of places rather than a handful of ideas.
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